 Since Linda Schaffer was diagnosed with lymphoma in late 2008, her family and friends have rallied around her, providing support and encouragement. But when Linda’s daughter, a teacher at Orchard Park High School, had the chance to take part in her school’s Goin’ Bald for Bucks event, Linda and her family found a whole new source of inspiration and hope.
“Since my diagnosis, she called every day, and did many things to raise my spirits,” said Linda. “Shaving her head in my honor was above and beyond any mother’s expectation.” To make the experience even more meaningful, Linda’s son volunteered to shave his sister’s head.
The family designed special t-shirts for the event on April 2, 2009. Linda’s supporters wore shirts that read “I know and love a future survivor.” Linda’s read: “Presently a patient, soon to be a survivor.” When Linda and her supporters stood together, the colors of the shirts lined up to create a rainbow.
“My daughter was the last of all the participants to have her head shaved. When the crowd cheered her on, I cried tears of joy and happiness,” said Linda. “What a wonderful gift!”
Linda’s Goin’ Bald experience—and her cancer journey as a whole—have granted her a new perspective.
“I’ve learned that encouraging stories and kind words go a long way,” said Linda. “Don’t focus on the hair loss, fatigue and pain, and don’t waste time feeling sorry for yourself because that’s the ‘small stuff.’ Keep a positive attitude and hope in your heart, accept help from those who offer and give help to someone who will benefit from your experience—because that’s the important stuff.”
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